LOOKS
& ATTIRE
It is my intention to be absolutely honest on this website.
I am not putting recognisable pictures of myself on display as this would be too indiscreet. Equally I will not be sending pictures to prospective subs. If you are the kind of sub who is only interested in what a Mistress looks like, then we will not get along.
The important points regarding my looks and appearance are as follows:
- I am five feet seven inches tall
- I have shortish dark brown hair, green-gold eyes, naturally very white teeth and am considered good looking.
- I have a strong, curvaceous build and currently wear size 18/20 clothes
So, if you appreciate mature, sexually attractive, assertive and confident women, then we may be compatible.
Now, be prepared for one of the following reactions. Shock, disappointment or perhaps relief?
I am one of the small set of Professional Mistresses who do not wear fetish clothing whilst in session. That means no rubber, leather or PVC clothing or thigh boots when I am dominating you. I am sure I am waving goodbye to a few of you at this point. That doesn’t frighten me. I have been a Pro-Mistress for over a decade and have never, ever worn fetish clothing and have always been successful and busy.
I don’t enjoy wearing fetish clothing and refuse to be a fake and dress up in clothes that make me feel awkward and silly. So, if it is a deal breaker for you, then we must part company here. I like to be served by subs who are excited by a dominant woman, not just her rubber stockings.
So, what do I wear when sessioning? Generally just normal clothes, skirts, trousers, smart jeans even. I love looking good but always on my terms. Dominant women are all individuals and I feel comfortable, happy and dominant in ordinary attire.
STYLE
Subs who get to session with me, get the REAL me. I behave with them as I would with my own submissive partner.
My personal style could be a variety of things or a mix of any of the following
- Teasing and sexy
- Strict and firm
- Playful and amused
- Demanding
- Encouraging
- Sadistic
- Controlling
and, of course, always dominant!
That said, I am not a shouter or a swearer. I am no man hater. I love submissive men which is why I choose to spend so much time with them. I am always calmly in control, both of myself and my sub. I am a ‘hands-on’ Domme, maybe more intimate and sensual than some and always ensuring I am enjoying myself to the utmost.
GENUINE LOVE OF DOMINATION
Surely every Pro-Domme says they are genuine? That may be so, but it is not always true. In my case, I think I can profess my love of domination with my hand on heart.
I am in a 24/7 lifestyle D/S relationship with my sub since Jan 2007, although he had been my sub for over four years leading up to us living together.
We enjoy a good bdsm social life involving clubs,parties and fetish fairs.
To read more about me, go to my 'Past
History' and ‘24/7
D/s’ in “Interesting
Stuff” where I explain about my BDSM history and lifestyle.
I know how important it is for subs to feel assured that their dominant Mistress is genuine. Everything I express on my site is a true reflection of me. I engage in bdsm with submissive men because it arouses me physically and mentally and provides enormous emotional satisfaction.
INTELLIGENCE & LIFE INTERESTS
Here are some other things about my life which are not related to bdsm but which give you some idea of myself as a person when I am not doing kinky stuff.
- I love reading, both fiction and non fiction. I have always been an avid reader and nowadays get my fix both from the traditional printed page or audiobooks downloaded to my iPod.
- I have a degree which was fun to do but clearly has made little impact on my professional path.
- I support a lowly placed football team and enjoy watching football generally except the premiership which just depresses me with its excesses.
- I love modern art, cinema going, the theatre, comedy, music especially alternative, indie, new wave, punk and 1980s stuff.
- I am a vegetarian and have been since 1985, when I gave up meat and fish living with other students who were either veggie, vegan or just like me impoverished.
- DIY and interior design. Both these interests should be helpful when we get on with our self-build project.
- I love cats and have two of my own, although they are currently lodging with my Mum who is enjoying the process of being dominated by two sulky bundles of fluffy ingratitude. They have always worked as a good reminder that try as I might, I cannot dominate everything.
MY LEVEL OF PROFESSIONALISM
Being professional in what I do is equally as important as being genuine. One can be genuinely into bdsm and still be unprofessional. Enjoying something doesn’t mean you have the requisite skills for doing something properly and safely.
Here are the things which sum up my professional attitude
- Sessions are planned and prepared with thought and care
- Equipment is clean and well maintained
- I am personally well presented, fragrant, reliable, well organised, in good health, sober, drug and disease free
- I only undertake activities I really enjoy and am competent to carry out.
- I run only one session a day so there is no factory production line atmosphere
- I always offer subs a safe word.
- Before and after sessions, my subs are treated with friendliness and respect, no matter what has been enacted in the session itself.
- Discretion and confidentiality are guaranteed.
- Sessions always last their full length and start when we commence playing. Chatting time prior to a session starting is never charged for.
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