| General Information
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Your Name:(*) |
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Your Phone Number:(*) |
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Your E-mail Address:(*) |
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Your Age: |
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On which BDSM directory did you find out about me? |
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| About You |
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| How often do you get to participate
in BDSM activities? |
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| Please briefly describe up to three
of your favourite BDSM scenarios |
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| Do you consider yourself to be: |
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| Masochistic: |
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| How important is sexual release
as part of the submissive experience for you? |
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| What do you think a
session is really about for you? |
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Wishing to suffer to please Mistress
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Expiating guilt |
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Going through a ritual rite of passage |
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Needing to be used for my Mistress pleasure
regardless of my own feelings |
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Fun & pleasure for both people |
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| My Mistress might be like: |
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Trainer - using rules, discipline, punishment and reward to develop me as her submissive
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Goddess - putting me through ordeals for her dominant pleasure, just because she can |
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Boss - using position of power to dominate
and/or punish me |
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Doctor - a woman in authority conducting intimate, perhaps humiliating, bodily examinations |
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Queen - Demanding and exacting, requiring pampering and complete obedience |
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Wife/Girlfriend - more domestically controlling and dominant but also often teasing and playful |
Torturer - making me beg for mercy
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Interrogator - using her mental and physical skills to get the answers she wants |
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| What purpose does pain serve in a session? |
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None - pain is not what I seek |
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Sensual and erotic pain is exciting |
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Pain can be a suitable punishment for wrong-doing |
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Pain is a necessary element in a training and discipline regime |
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Pain can be applied whenever Mistress wishes |
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Pain can be a reward for me if Mistress is enjoying hurting me |
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Pain is a big turn on, I am a pain slut |
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| What are your feelings about bondage and restraint?
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Bondage and restraint in any form is off-limits
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Bondage and restraint is scary but exciting
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I've not tried any bondage yet |
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Tie up and tease is a big turn on |
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I like bondage and restraint as it makes me feel submissive and controlled
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Bondage and restraint are all part of the submissive training process
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I enjoy light and comfortable restraint |
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I enjoy some discomfort in restraint
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Bondage and restraint are important and satisfying elements in a session |
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I seek heavy bondage (sleep sacks, straight jackets, cling film, extensive rope and chain work) |
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I like prolonged periods of restraint |
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| ACTIVITIES |
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| The list below contains a selection
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| CP and impact play |
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No CP/impact play at all please |
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Gentle and sensuous CP/impact play |
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Spanking by hand |
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Leather straps and tawses |
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Canes |
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Paddles |
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Floggers |
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Riding crops |
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Whips |
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Any CP implements, I don't mind |
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Hard CP/impact play please |
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CP in a sub/Domme context |
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Impact play for painful fun - little or no emphasis on sub/Domme relationship |
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| If our play were to include Corporal
Punishment, what would be the maximum degree of marking on normally
clothed areas such as bottom, thighs and back? Be aware that I am able
to use certain techniques and implements to cause pain without leaving
marks, so you need not worry about marking if it is important not
to have any. |
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Anal Play
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Internal - plugs, dildoes, fingered by Mistress
(in her latex gloves), anal vibrators, anal electric plug |
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External - anal teasing and stroking |
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| Mistress Worship & Pleasure |
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Foot worship to show submission and humility |
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Washing & massaging Mistress feet for her pleasure |
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Body massage for Mistress to relax her |
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Other body worship - when and only if Mistress wishes |
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| Sensual Torment & Sexual Teasing |
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Nipple clamps |
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Nipple weights |
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Cock and Ball torture |
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Sexual teasing |
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Orgasm Denial (that means no orgasm at
all during our meetings) |
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Vibrator on genitals |
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Pegs and clamps on genitals |
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Vibrator on genitals |
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Cock and ball bondage |
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Cock and ball weights |
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Erotic tickling |
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Violet wand |
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Electrical play |
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Pin wheels |
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| Sensory Deprivation & Bodily
Control |
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Blindfolds |
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Full head hoods |
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Gas masks |
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Wearing gags |
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Cling-film wrapping |
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Breath play (not asphyxiation) |
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| Submissive Attire & Activities |
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Wearing collar/chain for Mistress |
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Wearing ankle and wrist cuffs |
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Kneeling |
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Following orders / restrictive rules |
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Wearing leather body harness |
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Performing chores and tasks (in and out of session) |
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Chastity training |
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Submissive training & etiquette |
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Lectures for misbehaviour |
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Discipline and maintenance training |
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Punishments for misbehaviour/poor performance |
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Positional and posture training |
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Humiliation |
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Enforced nudity |
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Interrogations/Questioning |
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Shaving/removing body hair |
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Swallowing semen (yes, really, not just fantasise about it) |
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Verbal humiliation and putting in place |
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Chastity training |
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Forced masturbation for the amusement of Mistress |
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Hair pulling |
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Face slapping (more for humiliation than pain) |
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Put into female underwear for the pleasure of Mistress |
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Anal Training |
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Dildo sucking |
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Crawling/begging |
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General humiliation (specify below) |
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| Totally 'Off-Limits' |
| Very importantly, note clearly any
activities which are totally 'Off-limits' for you. Give explanations
if necessary. |
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