Find out more about what she likes, dislikes and what makes her tick.

Q.What should we call you?

For a traditional discipline scene, Miss Keene is appropriate whereas when slave-training is taking place, I prefer, Mistress or Milady. However, I am also happy to be addressed as Mistress K, Madam/Ma'am, or Miss K.

Q.How would you describe yourself?

Voluptuous, sexy, curvy, playful, assertive, sensuous, calm, friendly, professional, well-organised, well-prepared, intelligent, humorous, articulate, quick-witted, sophisticated, classy, experienced, interested and open-minded.

Q. What hobbies and interests do you have outside of BDSM?

I think it can be useful for my potential subs and slaves to know more about me as a whole person just the woman who dominates them.

Anybody who already knows me will know some of these things already. I adore cats and my two are beautifully quirky, ungrateful and demanding specimens of the feline species.

I am a real football fan and I love watching Oxford United. No Jokes about the two statements being incompatible! Some subs have said they are scared to come and see me after an Oxford defeat. However, this is nonsense as Oxford are always losing and so I am used to it! However anyone who lets slip they like certain other teams can end up receiving extra punishment. One poor chap was punished solely for being a Chelsea fan. Shame:-)

I am a great fan of independent cinema and try to go to the cinema as often as I can. I do watch Hollywood films but pick and choose carefully to avoid the particularly brainless and moronic.

I am very fond of live music (not mainstream stuff, as you might expect), live comedy and theatre.

A bit of retail therapy can sometimes be just the right thing. In common with most women, I enjoy treating myself to clothes, make-up, perfume, shoes, bags, jewellery and lots more. Lately I have been also buying an awful lot of items for my new home and playroom.

Perhaps it is the habit I got into whilst studying for my English Literature degree, but I always have at least one book on the go and I have a 'reserve' shelf of unread books which currently numbers about thirty. Gulp!!

Lastly, I like visiting sites of castles, abbeys and ancient monuments. I have always enjoyed learning about the wealth of history we have on our doorstep in this country and love to relax and take photos of these wonderful places.

Q. Why did you become a Professional Dominant?

Mmmmm....there are many answers to this one. I am sure I was always meant to Domme professionally as previously I felt oddly unsatisfied in other types of work. I eventually took the plunge when it dawned upon me how I was secretly desperate to do it.  I gain satisfaction from knowing that many subs ( men, in particular) rely upon Pro-Dommes for most or all of their BDSM play and that I can fulfil such an important role and enjoy myself at the same time.

Q.How do you feel about body worship?

I do happily allow some of my submissives to engage in worship of parts of my body. However, I would never say that I would let everyone do that. There has to be a good rapport and connection between myself and my play partner before I am comfortable with this. Body worship works well as a treat, a reward for someone who has tried hard to please me and is best denied first to increase desire.

Q.How do you feel about cross-dressing?

Cross-dressing and BDSM do seem to go very well together. I can see that being dressed in feminine garb can enable a man to get in touch with his inner submissiveness easily. It can be used as a humiliating 'punishment' if necessary or as a wonderful treat for a man who loves to wear sexy, shiny, silky or lacy underclothes. I am often amazed how cute men can look when wearing stockings and suspenders. Personally I love spanking a round bottom framed by suspenders and ladies panties. Mmmmm!!

Q.What do you expect of a potential slave or submissive?

You know the obvious things......honesty, openness and sincerity for starters. I need the person to have a genuine desire to explore their submissive side and to come to me, mentally and physically willing to embark on that journey with me. For me to enjoy it, I must feel my play partner is prepared to open themselves up to the wonderful experiences of submissive pleasure. They must be emotionally healthy and have respect for themselves and for me.

Q.Would you accept female submissives?

As I am essentially bisexual, I am very willing to accept female subs and slaves to play with. In my personal life, I have often had fun dominating women at play parties.

Q.What are your favourite types of play partner?

My subs must be emotionally healthy, sane, fun, honest and receptive to me and to my wicked imagination. I love to know that what I am doing is having a reaction, so moaning, wriggling, giggling, talking (if appropriate) are all GOOD things. I like to feel that my play partner is really participating in the experience with me.

Q.And your least favourite types of play partners?

Oh Goodness, most of this is pretty obvious.
Here goes..People who haven't washed or brushed their teeth.
Men who equate visiting a Domme to visiting a prostitute. Wrong!
Men who have read or watched too much porn. Sleazy and no imagination!
Subs who seem unable to give anything out, silent, repressed types. I try my best but it is such hard work. Give me some sign of life, chaps!
Rude blokes, crude blokes....you get the idea!

Q.Do you ever run sessions with other people involved?

Generally I like them to be one-to-one events with my play partner. Anyone else present (sub, Domme or switch) will change the atmosphere and dynamics of the scene. However, I will engage in couple training or tuition if it feels right.

Q.How do you feel about gifts?

Sometimes my subs and slaves will give me small gifts and I am always very touched by their  thoughtfulness. However, these presents while nice, are not necessary. I remember once looking at another Domme's site and she had a 'Gift List' proudly displayed and the things she demanded were crazily expensive.  I was rather shocked by her blatant greed and exploitative attitude.

Q.Do you do phone session or e-mail domination?

No, I don't do either of those things. I am very much a 'hands-on' Domme and get nothing out of distance domination. I will do additional distance training as part of  real life domination with a sub.

Q.Do you use safe words?

I use the simple traffic light system. This means that RED means 'stop' and if you said RED I would immediately stop doing what I was doing and would ask you if you were okay. AMBER can mean that you are getting close to your limit but could carry on at that level of intensity but not any higher. GREEN can be used when you want to tell me you are very happy with the level of intensity and dearly hope I will continue for a while. Whether I do depends upon just how nice or nasty I feel at the time.

Q.What do you do to ensure safety in your sessions?

My equipment is kept clean and well-maintained. I cover anal toys inserted into the anus with a condom and in addition the plugs are disinfected after each use. Gags are cleaned with boiling water and disinfectant. Leather stuff is regularly cleaned and oiled.

Q.If you could have an ideal session what would it be?

My ideal session would a situation where myself and the sub would feel the energy and excitement of the other. We would understand each other, and would be comfortable in each other’s company. We would spark each other's imagination and I would be sexually and mentally aroused. What I did with or to the sub would be less important than the rapport we had. At the end we would both feel relaxed, revived and ready to face the world once more. I am privileged to have had some great sessions like that and they truly are food for the soul.

Q.What do you think makes you unique as a Dominant?

Well, we are all unique but I do differ from the generally perceived view of a Dominatrix. Clearly, my non-fetish wearing approach is a bit unusual but I think it has endeared me to subs who want to experience domination but without the theatrical clothes, shoes and dank dungeon atmosphere. I hope that my genuine love of what I do is obvious. I have been told that my intelligence and articulate style is a big attraction. In addition, I am aware that my relaxed yet thorough approach to what I do is reassuring for my subs. Lastly, I think the respect I show to my play partners by not rushing the sessions or having the next person lined up outside is much appreciated.

Q.What are the nicest things people have said about you?

I have had lot of lovely things said to me either at the end of a great session or afterwards when the person has got back to their computer and just has to let me know how good the session made then feel. Some sweet people have written reviews on UK-Mistresses or other review sites. Obviously I feel great when I know my efforts have been appreciated. Two which stick in my mind are being called (when I lived elsewhere) 'Oxfords most wonderful secret attraction' and being told I was' the ’thinking man's Domme'.

Q.What makes you happy about being a Pro-Domme?

So many things are fabulously rewarding. On a good day, I wake up and feel there is nothing better I could be doing because I love my occupation so much.

I love to feel the energy that's generated between me and a play partner with whom I have close understanding and rapport. It makes me very happy to know that subs come to see me with often very specific and unique desires and that I can fulfil those desires and have such a brilliant time myself into the bargain.

I love having bodies to play with. I am a sensuous and teasing woman who adores having intimate access to the minds and bodies of so many lovely subs.

I get immense satisfaction from the knowledge that what I do is meaningful, important and thrilling for my play partners. This just adds the 'icing on the cake' for me as I get my own pleasure as well as sharing in the subs excitement.

Q.What drives you mad about being a Pro-Domme

Mmmmm...well, I don't like to moan as generally I am very happy with my lot.

However, some things can wipe the smile from my face.

Time wasters are a really big nuisance and have been the cause of many good Dommes giving up and returning to the vanilla world. I don't have too many bothering me thankfully but they are demoralising, irritating and I have nothing but contempt for anyone who messes people around for their own twisted amusement.

Apart from that, I get annoyed by people who cannot separate fantasy from reality and those enquirers who will not give out enough information for me to base a successful session upon. Again this is because I put a lot of thought and effort into my domination and dislike when my potential subs do not seem to be meeting me halfway. Besides which sessions are only good if both people are giving their utmost.

Q.Do you intend to continue being a Pro-Domme?

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