More about what I like to do

Bondage - with teasing and torment

Rope, chains, leather straps, tie down straps...they are all fabulous for rendering my subs immobile and deliciously vulnerable.

I have sleep sacks, straight jackets and can do cling film wrapping for longer periods of bondage.

Sensuous torment is one of my favourite ways to wile away the time. How lovely it is to smile down at a man as he watches me touch, tickle, arouse, stroke, arouse and torment him.

Helplessness is such a wonderful feeling, is it not?

Of course, when restrained, hoods, gags, blindfolds, ear defenders can all be called into play to create and heighten the submissive mindset.

If just bondage is sought, I will consider doing sessions of longer than my usual 90 mins. My max would be four hours in total.

Corporal punishment and Impact play:

No way around it, I just love whipping, flogging and spanking.

I enjoy doing sensuous stuff just as much as I love dishing out the hard stuff. For me, it is all about having a cane or flogger in my hands and knowing that whatever I do with it will be wonderfully arousing for me. You never know, it might be fun for the sub too.

I obviously enjoy whipping a man who is submitting to me. However, I do equally enjoy impact play where there is no D/s context but instead we are equals just having fun with whips, canes and floggers.

I should add though that I do not switch. My pleasure is in giving, not receiving CP.

I am happy to arrange all kinds of different CP/impact scenarios as long as no 'age play' such as schoolboy/teacher or nephew/aunt is involved.

I enjoy carrying out ‘all over body’ flogging, as well as working on specific areas like bastinado, the beating of the soles of the feet.

I love........

CP just for the fun of it, with or without restraints.

CP as real punishment for ‘real life’ poor behaviour and disobedience.

CP as role play punishment like Boss, Lady of the Manor, Slave owner, Queen and so on.

CP as pure pain ordeal with no reference to punishing of bad behaviour. Pain just because I can and enjoy dishing out a fine beating.

CP as sensuous experience- after all CP is not all about hitting hard. It can just be deliciously erotic.

All the ways in which I love using CP can result in a very emotionally moving and thrilling session. Subs may experience sub-space or other cathartic and/or transforming feelings. CP can be wonderful for stress relief (both myself and the sub), refreshing, and deeply relaxing.

Ultimately CP can be whatever magic two people create.

Role Play

Role play is great fun. I only engage in role play scenarios if I can really get into the role and character easily. I see no reason to act out a role which is no fun for myself.

I do enjoy enacting the following roles:

Interrogator......Strict Boss....Prison Officer.....Police Officer....Slave Owner
Queen of fantasy female led society...Lady of the Manor...Sadistic Torturer....Kidnapper

I do not engage in any 'age play' related role play or medical scenarios.

Nipple and Cock and Ball Play:

Nipples, cock and balls are just perfect for teasing, sensual touch, stroking, getting submissive man sexually aroused and worked up to a sate of groaning frustration.

Those parts can be approached from a pain perspective and tortured for my amusement and delight, for his masochistic desire and for punishment or training purposes.

Items used for these areas can be as simple as my fingernails or a leather gloved hand or can go through the spectrum of tickling, scratchy, whippy, clamping, stinging, or vibrating or electrical sensations.

Cock and Ball bondage and restraint often enhances that vulnerable, submissive sense that your genitalia are firmly under my control. So, if weights, clamps, violet wands, urethral sounds, whips and bondage are your thing ‘down below’, be sure to let me know.

Anal Play

I do enjoy all kinds of anal play with the exception of strap-on play, as I harbour no kind of hidden wish to have a penis or tie a fake one to my body. It just makes me feel silly, not sexy.

I do love using hand held dildos, vibrators, plugs to train and use my subs anally. My favourites are stainless steel nJoy plugs which are so lovely to look at as well as ergonomically designed for lengthy wear if required.

Domination and Submission

This is the context under which I will be sessioning with submissive men. All my sessions with the sole exception of fun impact play, will be conducted with D/s at their core.

D/s means I am dominant and you are submissive. You wish to submit to me, obey me, be trained, used, teased, hurt, humbled, and generally made to know your place. We negotiate before a session and what happens in the session is down to my reading of our mutual best interests. You have to trust me to know how to do this and come willing to submit to me and what I wish to do.

D/s covers a huge range of activities. Depending upon individuals, D/s can be about training in how to act, think and respond as a sub. It might be about physical training in anal training, chastity, bodily worship,posture work, objectification, domestic or garden chores, ordeals and endurance. It could be about almost anything which establishes the positions and dominance and submission within our relationship and seeks to maintain them.

Remember, that I am not here to serve your desires and wishes up on a plate for you in neat hourly segments. You will come to see me if you feel a strong desire to serve, please and amuse me. You will feel the strength of my dominant personality and will find yourself drawn to the prospect of naked vulnerability, humble submission and working harder than you can imagine to please me completely.

Please note this well.....

I am NOT a Goddess. Do not refer to me as such. It is insulting as I am a real person, not a symbolic manifestation of a kind of spiritually based dominance. I am a red blooded real woman and I am no more a Goddess than you are a worm. If you think of yourself as a worm, by the way, please find a Mistress who enjoys spending her time with worthless worms. I, on the other hand prefer to be with submissive men who have some degree of self esteem and self respect. If you cannot respect yourself, you cannot respect me. Rant Over! :-)

Chastity

Chastity training is something I am getting into more nowadays. I have had a few poor experiences in the past where subs have been very keen until they were put into chastity and then they just disappeared. This means, my view of those who say they seek chastity training, in or out of a device, is at least somewhat sceptical. This is not to say I will not undertake it, or have no successes, but I will be looking to the sub to prove to me his genuine desire for sexual control. I am not looking to meet any more subs whose heads are full of fantasy but possess no will or strength to commit to it in reality.

Violet wands

I have two violet wand sets which I love playing with. They are the only electrics I will use on my professional subs as I feel they are safe for everyone, fun for me to use and the static ( not current based) sensations can range from sensual prickling to a hot burning but ultimately safe pain

Sensual Stuff

I am capable of enjoying dominating a sub in a more gentle, sensual way with less emphasis on pain and more on sensual teasing, frustration, orgasm control, denial and so on. Please do make it clear if your submissive inclinations are not at all pain based so I can plan my fun accordingly. I do enjoy being sadistic but more than anything I like to be in control of a man and for that pain does not have to be on the agenda.

Body Worship

All Dommes are different in what we enjoy, how, when, how often and so on. I can and do enjoy certain types of body worship (not rimming though) and will train a sub to please me in these areas as and when I see fit and when I have the desire for it. It does not come ‘on demand’ nor does its absence mean I am not genuinely turned on in sessions. Ultimately, it is my choice when, if and with whom and for what reason. As long as subs are clear that in session everything is my choice and how I get them to serve and please me on any day is my genuine expression of my dominance. My raison d’etre is not to offer open access to my body to paying subs.