WHO DO I LIKE TO PLAY WITH
I am happy to see submissive men over the age of thirty (with no particular upper age limit as long as the man is healthy), of any race or nationality and any level of experience.

I do not play with women or couples or indulge in group activities.

WHO IS IN CONTROL

If the session is based on Domination and submission, then I am in control.

If you disagree about that, you must go and see a Mistress who will be happy for you to tell her what to do. No genuinely dominant woman will entertain that idea for a second.

Detailed scripts for sessions or lists of expectations will not be accepted. If you fill in my application form fully, I will have an accurate idea of what you are interested in. Good communication about your wants and needs is vitally important and I will be open and honest in return.

I do allow safe words if the sub wishes to use them. Obviously without safe words, there develops a deeper sense of domination and submission but I accept this is not possible for all subs.

Professional Dommes do not exist as submissive fantasy facilitators. We are dominant women and will come replete with our own bdsm desires. What I endeavour to do is to match my own bdsm pleasures with subs who share similar desires. If I think a sub is, or may try to, ‘top from the bottom’ so that I cannot enjoy myself, then I will not see him. I know it is terribly important that a sub knows with absolute certainty that I will be enjoying myself when dominating him. I will never fake or pretend.

Dommes can only dominate effectively if the sub actually relinquishes control and becomes submissive. Surely that is exactly what he wants? To be taken by a strong beautiful woman and, teased, restrained, tormented, punished, or a mix of all those things. He desires to feel overwhelmed, helpless, humiliated or vulnerable. He longs to lose control and watch Mistress take that control and relish it. He wants to see the pleasure dancing in her eyes, feel her arousal, hear satisfaction in her whispered threats and wicked laughter.

Trying to ‘top from below’ or maintaining a ‘he who pays the piper, calls the tune’ attitude will stop a sub from ever experiencing all the joy and fulfillment they might. No wonderful experiences will come to those who only give themselves half heartedly. You get back what you put in and it is never more true than with D/s.

THINGS I LIKE...

Things I enjoy doing in bdsm sessions

- Corporal Punishment/Impact Play (all levels, from sensuous and teasing right up to the hardest of canings)

- Bondage and restraint (short periods or longer sessions, light or heavier styles as appropriate)

- Selected Role plays (any but age play, heavy medical or cross dress transformation/sissy play)

- Sensuous teasing and torment and tickling ( vibrators, sensation toys)

- Nipple play (painful torture or playful teasing)

- CBT (cock and ball bondage, pegs, whipping, weights, pin wheels, urethral sounds and more)

- Violets wands

- Anal play and training (but not strap-on play)

- Orgasm control/denial. (teasing, and frustration games, ruined orgasms, earned pleasures)

- Chastity play (both during and outside of sessions).

- D/s training, rituals, rules, protocols, service, domestic work (only for man maids)

In keeping with my more ‘normal’ and natural style of domination, my play areas are not decorated and presented as dungeons. That is just not my thing. I prefer the idea of simple, often quite ordinary items used for bdsm. So, I use my two huge chunky four poster beds as well as a bondage trolley my sub p and I made for bondage and CP and teasing/tormenting play. I do have a whipping bench and a bondage chair but equally fun is a leather topped bench, leather cubes and a very useful chaise longue in my hall. My kitchen table would even be perfect for CP. A fine flogging or caning could be delivered over its strong oak top.

My house has many opportunities for playing in almost every room so that is what I do as and when I feel appropriate.

FURNITURE & EQUIPMENT

I have well over a hundred different CP implements including 10 riding crops and dressage whips, 5 short single tail whips, around 30 floggers (softest to hardest), 20 straps and slappers, 15 paddles, over twenty canes (including ordinary rattan and smoked dragon canes), lots of hard to categorise items and a drawer full of smaller whips and floggers (suitable for use on delicate parts of the body).

I have a large and varied collection of bondage, CBT, nipple and anal equipment and toys and two violet wand sets.

I do not specialise in rubber or medical things so am unlikely to have much of these things.

If you wish to know if I have anything in particular, you are welcome to ask.

MY EXPECTATIONS

Appointments unable to be kept must be cancelled with as much notice as possible. This is important if you do not wish to lose your deposit.

Good personal hygiene. You may shower here before (or after) a session if you wish.

Deposits will be sent and remaining fees settled before session begins.

You will be as discreet about me as you would expect me to be about you.

You will give me a mobile phone number for an emergency contact should I need to cancel the appointment on the day. If you only have an e-mail contact then please check it on morning of appointment.

Never send anything through the post to me except the deposit as it can be indiscreet if the letter or package gets delivered to a neighbour by mistake.

OFF-LIMITS

What is off-limit for me is anything which is not actively promoted and clearly offered on this website.

If an activity is not mentioned in the “Things I like” section above, then it is because I don’t enjoy it and don’t do it.

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