WHO
DO I LIKE TO PLAY WITH
I enjoy playing with men or women or couples, of any level of experience
and ability. I am happy to see subs over the age of 25 years old (with
no upper age limit) and of any race or nationality.
WHO IS IN CONTROL
This a question which needs resolving before you
visit a Professional Dominatrix.
You must ask yourself what it is you hope to get from a session with a
Pro-Domme and what you are prepared to put into it.
Deep down, do you truly think that if you are paying the Mistress, then
she must do exactly as you want? If that is so, you may find it difficult
to have satisfying sessions with any Pro-Dommes of worth.
I enjoy being Dominant and being in control. That is a simple and given
fact.
I like to have the flexibility to be able, having read the application
form, to create a session which uses my skills and talents and will be
mutually satisfying.
What I dislike is being given detailed scripts and long lists of exact
expectations. Dommes are human and can only enjoy themselves and dominate
effectively, if the sub does actually relinquish control. Surely that
is what he wants? To be taken by a strong, beautiful woman and used, teased,
tormented, punished, dressed, made to work or all or any combination of
those things. He wants to feel overwhelmed, helpless, restrained, humiliated
and vulnerable. He wants to lose control and see the lady take control
and relish it. He wants to see her pleasure dancing in her eyes, feel
her arousal, hear satisfaction in her whispered threats and wicked laughter.
If I have agreed to do a simple caning with no frills then fair enough
that requires no more than a cane, a firm attitude and strong arm, a good
eye for accuracy and my pleasure in it to succeed. However, most sessions
are more complicated than that, and need my imagination, creativity and
dominant instincts to work well. A safeword ensures that you really do
not have to take anything which is simply unbearable. You will be safe,
under the control of an expert, a Domme who understands your desires and
wants you to experience all the joys BDSM can offer.
So, if you want to hand over control, then
come and see me as I would love to take you on a wonderful journey into
the depths of your submission.
THINGS I LIKE...
- Corporal Punishment (sensuous and playful through
to very severe)
- Bondage/restraint
- Nipple & genital torture &/or play
- Humiliation
- Slave training (short sessions to longer term training)
- Domestic service
- Body worship
- Foot worship
- Anal play
- Electrical play
- Sensory deprivation
- Role play
- Cross dressing
- Sensual teasing & torment
- Orgasm control/denial/key holding (long or
short term)
PLAYROOM
My playroom (known as The Office for discretion purposes) is a spacious 18ft by 14ft room decorated in muted cream, black and brown.
It is discreetly situated within my garden and is well soundproofed, insulated,
heated and lit.
The playroom contains some classic BDSM equipment but is not designed to
look like a ‘dungeon’.
I truly dislike the word 'dungeon' when used in connection to consensual
BDSM play. It has connotations of somewhere cold, stinking and dank and
redolent of brutal torture and violence.
I love to dominate in a chamber of deviant kinkiness. I want it to reflect
all of my moods be they playful, sensuous, demanding or strict. An environment
to train and use subs and slaves. A place to put subs into bondage. To
punish those who deserve or need it and reward those who earn it. To satisfy
my dominant pleasures to torment and tease and much more besides.
Consider it a fusion of styles. As changeable and versatile as the Mistress
who created it. It is unique to me.
Dommes should have the confidence to be themselves and not have carbon
copy play spaces. I will never be an ‘off the shelf’ Domme.
FURNITURE & EQUIPMENT
There is a weight bearing open fronted frame
(floor to ceiling) attached to the walls which can be used for vertical
bondage in several positions as well as housing a massage table underneath
for horizontal bondage and play.
I own a padded whipping bench over which a lucky soul is draped, head down
slightly and bottom up for comfortable yet secure restraint so that CP,
anal play or genital play can occur.
My purpose built bondage chair is used for sitting bondage and forcing
legs in the spread position for easy access to genitals.
I possess a small oak stool which can be used for bondage, anal play, punishment
and sub/slave training
On one wall sits a large oak framed mirror (1.8 m and 1.2m) so that activities
in the room can be viewed by the participants if required.
All my vast supply of small equipment is stored away neatly in oak drawers
or on hanging rails for easy access.
MY EXPECTATIONS
Naturally you have certain obligations if
wish to session with me:
I would expect the following:
- Respectful behaviour as befitting to one of my slaves
or submissives.
- An understanding of the information contained on
my web site. Do not expect anything that is not advertised or pre-agreed
with me. Do not ask for any of my OFF-LIMIT activities.
- Good personal hygiene. You may shower here before
a session if you would like.
- Punctuality and Reliability .As a matter of courtesy,
you will cancel (by e-mail or phone message) well in advance if you find
you cannot make the agreed appointment. This is particularly important
if you do not wish to lose your deposit.
- Deposit sent and remaining fees settled before the
session commences.
- You will be as discreet about me as you expect me
to be about you. Obviously, I welcome positive reviews for publishing
on a BDSM website but I would expect to see a copy in advance.
- You will give me a mobile phone number or e-mail
address when you book a session. This is essential should I ever need
to cancel the appointment at short notice due to illness or unexpected
problems.
OFF-LIMITS
I will NOT do any of the the below:
- Dress in fetish
clothing. I do not need a PVC wrapper to feel Dominant and it is just
not my style. The same applies to very high heel shoes and knee or thigh
boots. Please accept I like to be me when Domming as that is surely what
you wanted!
- Have penetrative sex with or perform oral sex. I
am sure you all knew that anyway!
- Adult baby: it just doesn’t do anything for
me.
- Watersports: I find it messy and it turns me off!
- Brown Sports: Any kind of activity involving defecation.
I do not offer enemas.
- Blood Sports: No cutting or piercing anyone in the
course of a session.
- Children and Animals: No activities including
animals or persons below the age of 18.
- Smoking: Any smoking related activities.
- Restrictive Session plans: I will not go through
in detail via phone or e-mail exactly and to the letter what I will do
in any given session. I do not want to restrict myself to something which
on the day may actually be better done in a different way. I have found
that it is mostly time-wasters and idiots who ask for a detailed synopsis.
Genuine subs seem to like to leave the plan of the session to me once
we have agreed the kind of activities we will engage in and what is off-limits.
MK...
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