WHO DO I LIKE TO PLAY WITH
I am happy to see submissive men over the age of thirty (with no particular upper age limit as long as the man is healthy), of any race or nationality and any level of experience.

I do not play with women or couples.

WHO IS IN CONTROL

This section is all about hard truths which must be given real thought.

Who is in control in a Professional Domination and submission session is a thorny issue.

You and I may see it differently. I can only tell you how it appears to me.

From my perspective, I have to feel in control. I need the sub to have given up control and for me to feel that power exchange. If there is any doubt on that most important point, we will never have a good relationship.

If we fundamentally disagree on this issue, you must go and see a Mistress who will allow you to still be in control whilst apparently being ‘dominated’. This will be impossible to achieve, of course, as a genuinely dominant woman would never allow a sub, lifestyle or professional, to call the tune in that way.

I do not accept detailed scripts for sessions or lists of expectations. The only expectation a sub visiting me should have is that I will dominate him to the best of my ability and will enjoy myself fully in the process. I do understand hard limits are necessary sometimes and they are not the problem here. I also appreciate the need for communication and the exchanging of ideas prior to sessions. That is also not the problem here. What is untenable is trying to limit a dominant Mistress to the point where she has no individual input or freedom to be herself. If that is what you want, find a lady prepared to go through the motions satisfying your fantasy but don’t be fooled into thinking she will be enjoying it. It will be a hollow, soulless experience.

Dommes can only dominate effectively if the sub actually relinquishes control and becomes submissive. Surely that is exactly what he wants? To be taken by a strong beautiful woman and used, teased, restrained, tormented, punished, made to work or a mix of all those things. He desires to feel overwhelmed, helpless, humiliated or vulnerable. He longs to lose control and see the lady take that control and relish it. He wants to see the pleasure dancing in her eyes, feel her arousal, hear satisfaction in her whispered threats and wicked laughter.

Trying to ‘top from below’ or maintaining a ‘he who pays the piper, calls the tune’ attitude will stop a sub from ever experiencing all the joy and fulfillment they might. No wonderful experiences will come to those who only give themselves half heartedly. You get from something what you put in and it is never more true than with D/s.

THINGS I LIKE...

Things I enjoy doing in bdsm sessions

- Corporal Punishment/Impact Play (sensuous and playful through to the very severe)
- Bondage and restraint (short periods or longer sessions)
- Nipple play/torture
- Humiliation
- Submissive training (short sessions to longer term training)
- Cock and Ball play/torture
- Body and foot worship
- Anal play
- Electrical play
- Sensory deprivation
- Selected Role plays
- Sensuous teasing and torment and tickling
- Orgasm control/denial
- Getting my own sexual pleasure (this doesn’t mean me having sexual intercourse with my subs, by the way)

We are currently living in very pleasant and secluded accommodation while we decide what our long term accommodation plans in Norfolk will be.
My play area is located on the ground floor, in a neutrally decorated room with ample space for all my bdsm needs.

My play spaces are never called dungeons, nor do they look like them. I truly dislike the word ‘dungeon‘ when used in connection with consensual bdsm play. It has connotations of somewhere cold, dank, and redolent of brutal torture and violence. Not my scene at all.

I love to dominate my subs in a kinky playroom. I want it to be able to reflect all of my moods be they playful, sensuous, demanding or strict. An environment suitable to train and use my subs. A bondage palace. A place to punish those who deserve or need it as well as to reward those who earn it. A place where I can feel relaxed and comfortable, expressing my dominance and satisfying all my kinky desires.

FURNITURE & EQUIPMENT

I recently acquired two new pieces of furniture. One is a padded bondage/whipping bench which p and I constructed. It is on casters which allows me to use it wherever I want in the room and particularly in conjuction with the other new item. This is a "Tetruss" frame made for bondage, imported from the USA and pictures of both pieces have been added to my gallery pages.

I also own a padded whipping bench over which a lucky sub is draped, head down slightly and bottom positioned upward for comfortable yet secure restraint so CP, anal play or genital play can occur.

My purpose built padded bondage chair is used for sitting bondage and for forcing the legs spread apart for easy access to the genitals.

I have a couple of small wooden stools which work well for bondage, anal play, punishment and sub training.

All my vast collection of small kit is kept neatly hung up or in the cupboards and drawers in the playroom.

MY EXPECTATIONS

Appointments unable to be kept must be cancelled with as much notice as possible. This is important if you do not wish to lose your deposit.

Good personal hygiene. You may shower here before a session if you wish.

Deposits will be sent and remaining fees settled before session begins

You will be as discreet about me as you would expect me to be about you.

You will give me a mobile phone number for an emergency contact should I need to cancel the appointment on the day. If you only have an e-mail contact then please check it on morning of appointment.

Never send anything through the post to me except the deposit as it can be indiscreet if the letter or package gets delivered to a neighbouring address by mistake.

OFF-LIMITS

We all have some things which are off-limit or we really do not wish to do. This is my list. Please respect it.

I will NOT do any of the the below:

- Dress in fetish clothing. I do not need a PVC wrapper to feel dominant and it is just not my style to wear rubber, leather or PVC . The same applies to very high heel shoes and knee or thigh boots. They all feel fake to me when I wear them so I just don’t do it anymore, EVER!

- Have penetrative sex with or perform oral sex. I am pretty sure you all knew that anyway.

- Strap-on play. I love all other kinds of anal play but draw the line at strapping a plastic cock to myself and pretending I enjoy it when I don't. It makes me feel unfeminine and ridiculous.

- Medical style scenarios. I can’t ever quite work out how medical play can arouse me so I don’t worry anymore. I just don’t do it.

- Any age-related role play at all. This means adult baby stuff, school boy spankings, auntie/nephew play or anything which is about pretending one participant is under 21 years of age.

- Cross-dressing and transformation play. Sorry, but I really am bored of flouncing, prancing and preening boys in stockings. The only time my subs get to be in ladies knickers is if I know they really don’t like it, then it’s a nice humiliation kick for me.

- Domestic Service. In all my years of being a PD, I have only seen one person who did domestic service properly. Life is too short for me to wait another decade to find a submissive man who can do housework as well as I can do it.

- Children and animals. Hardly needs saying but there it is anyway.

- Watersports. Any kind at all. Not for me

- Brown sports. No activities involving defecation and that includes enemas.

- Blood sports. No cuttings and no piercing.

- Smoking activities.

- Restrictive session plans. A broad outline is okay, agreeing generally what kinds of activities may be engaged in is fine and accepting hard limits is reasonable. Anything which is detailed, scripted or feels too limiting for me will be rejected with reference to this off-limit section.

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